Seguramente has escuchado la frase \u201cPonerse en lugar del otro\u201d y creo que es importante entender y profundizar un poco en ella aunque parezca trivial.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poner en pr\u00e1ctica esta frase tiene una dificultad importante, ya que requiere que abandonemos nuestros paradigmas, mapas mentales y prejuicios para tomar prestados por un momento los del \u201cotro\u201d y poder as\u00ed hacer un an\u00e1lisis de la situaci\u00f3n desde la perspectiva del otro, es clave no simplificar este acto con la suposici\u00f3n de que \u201cyo\u201d estoy en el lugar del otro, porque lo seguir\u00e9 viendo con mi perspectiva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Voy a dar un ejemplo con un caso cotidiano relacionado con los padres pero bien puede ser un amigo, compa\u00f1ero de trabajo, pareja, etc. Muchas veces escuchamos (o decimos nosotros mismos) cosas sobre los padres y sus decisiones, generalmente reproches de sus hijos adolescentes o adultos. Estamos convencidos que hab\u00eda m\u00e1s de una opci\u00f3n, incluso que la decisi\u00f3n tomada por nuestros padres no fue la mejor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Generalmente, en estos casos la vemos desde nuestra perspectiva y no nos ponemos en su lugar <\/strong>y \u00bfqu\u00e9 es eso de ponernos en su lugar? pues es un ejercicio en el que se toman en cuenta las variables de ese momento (cantidad de hijos, situaci\u00f3n laboral, madurez emocional, etc.) y con toda esa informaci\u00f3n se utilizan los mapas mentales de nuestros padres para pasar por ese \u201cfiltro\u201d y entender la decisi\u00f3n tomada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n El ejercicio anterior no se hace para que tu opini\u00f3n cambie o para que t\u00fa tomes la misma decisi\u00f3n, se hace por empat\u00eda<\/strong>, que es un tema m\u00e1s extenso y tocaremos en alg\u00fan momento. El objetivo final es entender la raz\u00f3n de aquella decisi\u00f3n y poder as\u00ed llegar a acuerdos en los que todos los involucrados se sientan satisfechos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ernesto Olivier – @elexitocontigo<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Seguramente has escuchado la frase \u201cPonerse en lugar del otro\u201d y creo que es importante entender y profundizar un poco en ella aunque parezca trivial. 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